Monday, October 28, 2013

How My Life Has Improved With Music

Music is probably the broadest art form. At least, it has certainly been around for long time. Who can say if cavemen hit sticks together or if they scratched the walls with crude drawings first? Either way, both of them are pretty easy to come up with.


Music is vast. There are only so many colors to paint with, but infinite soundscapes to create. Although visually there is much more than colors. I digress, but music is a very emotionally evocative thing. And the entertainment industry knows it. Chances are, the people who cry at the movies do so because of the soundtrack backing the emotional scene. Although not uncommon, it is certainly less likely, that the same people would cry simply reading the scene or the chapter it is based on.


Music has more benefits than just expression. A strong link has been established between playing a musical instrument and intelligence at a young age. This has been studied time and time again and believed to be true by most experts. But that is just icing on the cake. Even if it were not beneficial to the connection the left and right hemispheres of the brain it would be worth exploring. Music is a terrific way to express, communicate, and experiment.


Words can be misconstrued or misunderstood, the same scene can appear different from another vantage point, but music is a very consistent thing. Almost anyone can tell if a song is sad or one to dance to; it does not need to set itself up with plot and narrative. That simplicity gives it strength. Its ability to communicate, not through words representative of emotions but through sounds strongly connected to those emotions, is one that transcends language. A slow French song is slow to an American. There is probably not a soul that can hear normally who would say "Adagio for String" by Samuel Barber is not a tragic piece. Music, at its core, is a way to communicate, to interpret, and to create.



My personal experience with music has been a love and hate relationship. I hated it then, I love it now, yet I still hate what it is to many people. When I was young, my sister would blare her music through her stereo, and through the wall between our rooms. I was not terribly fond of her choice in music, and honestly, I still am not today (sorry Katie). She was fond of harsh rap music which my elementary-and-before ears could not appreciate the lyrical feats of. My mother listened to folksy music with women who sang in an elaborate fashion that was not appealing to me. My father listened to sports radio, and when he did not, he listened to whatever was on the most popular stations around the city. I grew up knowing few songs that I enjoyed.


Most of music was not worth listening to, I thought. With that mentality, but my parents unaware of it, I was enrolled in piano lessons. Dread would be the word for my feelings on those lessons. The teacher was kind enough, but the music was oh-so-boring and, oh, how I did not pick it up easily. The only solace I found was in a little midi program on the computer students did exercises on. The simple program allowed you to place notes of different lengths in sequence of your choice. I, and a few other students, would individually mess around and make midi songs, saving them if we liked them; I'm sure that some of the songs were just the pieces that the others were learning, but some were original, probably. I listened to them all and I made the most midi files of anyone. I had this idea that we were all in this little secret club and checking out each others' files, but no doubt, it was just me doing so and everyone else was just using a tool set out for their musical instruction.


But that alone wasn't enough to keep me there. Eventually, I weaseled my way out of lessons entirely before I went into middle school. I had gone on and on about getting the songs I made off her computer before I quit, and I think she did give me them but I never opened them off the disc and have since lost it throughout the years. So then came middle school, the time where music was something heard and not played, let alone written, by me.  But I grew to know my own tastes better.


In high school, I began playing again. There were some modern pieces that I enjoyed so much I wanted to play them, and I had learned to read music in elementary school, so why not do so? It was frustratingly hard to learn a simple piece or two. Once I learned one however, I enjoyed playing it, and some people enjoyed hearing it.


I no longer had a program to play with, only a piano, but I did play with it all the same. New bizarre harmonies and chord progressions came forth from my hands and I enjoyed making those strange pieces thoroughly (though I will not leave you with one, thank me later). They were fun, but I was having trouble writing them down and figuring out the technicalities of the music I had made. I wanted to write them down in case I forgot a part of them. Only knowing how to read music was not enough to record it on paper or electronically in a midi.


So I took a class was offered at my high school called IB Music. Basically, it was a music theory, history, and appreciation class that spanned two years. There I learned of all sorts of jargon that would be meaningless to most: the mixolydian mode, free counterpoint and stretto, among others. It had become too technical and we began listening to street performers from Latin America and expected to comment intellectually on it, so I lost some of my interest in it. I only took the first year because an engineering class conflicted with it, regretfully.


That pretty much leads up to now. I have a knowledge of music that allows me to record what I make and interpret what I hear and see. I can learn by ear and by common notation. I still write piano pieces but they are less erratic. Music is something I find comfort in. It can be something fun or something expressive for me. It is an enjoyable hobby whether in the form of listening or playing music.


I strongly encourage anyone to try and take up music or music theory/appreciation. In my bias, I recommend the piano highly. However, I have been the child who was all but forced into lessons, and it was not good for my musical interest. Music should be pursued of one's own initiative rather than started by well meaning parents. Whether listening or playing, it is good to have some knowledge of music. It isn't necessary to know the date composed or any trivia-like knowledge about the composer to truly appreciate the music. Creating and learning about music is the best way to understand what is already out there. Many music teachers and students forget this, and that is why independent initiative is so important. Always remember, there's a reason it's called playing the instrument.



Friday, October 11, 2013

Alcoholism's Effects on Children

Alcoholism has become a very well known word. It is defined as an addiction to alcohol or the mental illness and uncontrolled behavior which is caused by that addiction. As of late, alcoholism has slipped off in popularity, but the problem still remains. Whether alcoholism is a disease or not is still unsettled in the public. Although it is officially recognized as a disorder on the National Institute of Health's (NIH) sub-website The National Institute of Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA). So alcoholism is a disorder, officially, and that disorder has many negative effects on those around the alcoholic, especially the alcoholic's children.


The most obvious and damaging effects are on the children. Alcoholism in pregnant mothers is a serious issue which causes side effects and complications in the fetus and is known as Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, very real problems are caused for the baby because the mother drank during pregnancy. But this post will be more concerned with more subtle influence on the family, influence of a social nature, or influence which causes other family members to become alcoholics. 


Family's most basic relationship is that of genetic information. In recent years, the phrase 'alcoholism gene' may have reared its head. Although it seems that genetics can predispose a person to drink more or to not enjoy drinking more, there is definitely no set gene which causes alcoholism. This means that alcoholism arises from different genetic sources. Of course, one's family is largely responsible for one's own genes, but since there is no individual alcohol gene, from whence does it rear its ugly head?


Dr. Robert J. Ackerman, in his paper Alcoholism and the Family, describes a vast variety of influences on children with alcoholism and the family, "whether or not a parent is recovering from alcoholism or still drinking... sex of the child and sex of the alcoholic parent... age of the child ... race... ordinal position ... socio-economic factors of the family ... and offsetting factors which can be either people or institutions that have had a positive impact on the children." So the factors are very diverse and complicated.


Alcoholics have many different reasons and excuses to drink but the effects are often all too similar. Children of alcoholics are affected academically by their parent's or parents' alcoholism. Children become delinquents, lose self confidence, and don't learn how to deal with stress in positive ways. An alcoholic's child will often blame themselves for the alcoholism. Forcing the blame onto themselves is unhealthy but it is a natural reaction to parental behavior, just as children of divorce often believe they are responsible. Children of alcoholics are also four times more likely to become alcoholics themselves. Again, part of that likelihood stems from genetics, but also behavior by influence is a large factors. 


The social relationship families have is important, especially to children. Children use their parents as role models unconsciously, especially at a young age. When beginning a new feat that the child has never done before, such as swinging a baseball bat, they will imitate it how they have seen a parent doing the same action. This can lead to children believing that alcohol abuse is just how to deal with stress.


Children of alcoholics are a common problem in schools. A list of warning signs from the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry on how to spot a child of an alcoholic is as follows: 

  • Failure in school; truancy
  • Lack of friends; withdrawal from classmates
  • Delinquent behavior, such as stealing or violence
  • Frequent physical complaints, such as headaches or stomachaches
  • Abuse of drugs or alcohol; or
  • Aggression towards other children
  • Risk taking behaviors
  • Depression or suicidal thoughts or behavior

With such a wide variety of reactions, it is hard to pin down a description of a child affected by alcoholism. The main reason being alcoholism is such a general term. Alcoholics themselves can be withdrawn, drinking in solitude. They can be abusive, physically, emotionally, or even sexually. They can be predictable, drinking in patterns, or they can be entirely sporadic and chaotic in their drinking.


A complicated and broad problem has complicated and broad effects. So much so, that it is actually difficult to determine the effects. Are problem children difficult because of alcoholism in the family? Are family members of the problem child alcoholics because the child is difficult? Or is it a cycle? It is a chicken-and-the-egg situation. Ultimately, the parent should break the cycle, as the older, more mature member. The parents are the ones who have the power to stop, the children cannot stop their parents' alcoholism.


I have personally dealt with alcoholism in my own family, and from more than one family member. And I have seen multiple types of alcoholic behavior and I have seen abuse result from it. This has definitely influenced me to be wary of alcohol and to make sure I never slip that far down the slope. There are many who choose to avoid alcohol entirely because of alcoholism in the family, but I will not take it that far. If I did that, it would still have power over me, in a way, so I choose to treat it in a normal fashion, but be cautious of myself. After all, because it is in my nuclear family, chances are I could very well become or be an alcoholic.


Although alcoholism has fallen out of popular eye, it is still a very serious social problem. According to the NIH, 18 million Americans have the disorder, about 5.73% of Americans. And every one of those 18 million has a family who is harmed by their alcoholism. Parents blame themselves for their children's drinking and children blame themselves for their parents'. It is a problem that doesn't have a cure, only a way to manage it. There is no drug which lowers all alcoholic's urge to drink, although attempts have been made towards one. It is difficult to come at a problem when the only solution is to get someone who is dependent on something to stop using that very thing. Groups like Alcoholics Anonymous have worked well for many people, just providing support and guidance. 


It is important to keep problems in public attention even if they aren't easily solved. When problems first appear everyone hears of them, but they become 'old news' quickly and disappear from the public eye. Alcoholism is still around, still in about 1 in 17 Americans, and it still affects their families too.